054 How to Live Happier After Divorce

DivorceWilma Jones, Author of “Living Happier After” shares 5 key steps on how to live a “happier” life after divorce.  She talks about how to manage the negative thoughts and attitudes about the “Ex,” your future, how to handle post-divorce issues surrounding the children, the ex’s new lover, child support/alimony, and dating again, so that you CAN live happier after the divorce.

Wilma Jones is an author, speaker and coach dedicated to helping women redefine and build happier lives after divorce, including improving their co-parenting skills to build stronger families and communities.

014 Autism Awareness

UsImagine bringing your beautiful child into the world and watching as he progresses normally with all milestones being met. Then somewhere between 1 ½ and 2 years of age……everything changes.  Your precious child is kidnapped; not his physical body, but his brain.  The doctor says it is Autism.  Now what do you do?  How do you prepare?

Shante Nicole and husband, Chris Superville will share the story of their beautiful son, Dylan and how learning how to get through to Dylan became their mission in life.  It is truly a story of destiny, love, laughter, triumph, and the answer to a calling.

Learn how their journey led them to form the organization F.A.C.E., which gives the caregivers of all special needs children that much needed respite for several hours one Saturday each month.

How many times have you witnessed a parent who seemingly had no control over their child and think “If that was my child, I would……,” or “Why can’t they control that child?” How many times while flying or using public transportation did you throw that parent a certain look and think “Why can’t they shut that child up?” Would you believe that many people actually speak these words to the caregivers?

When it comes to Autism, it is not that simple. Neither does Autism have an obvious physical appearance that will allow the casual observer to see that the caregiver has an Autistic child.

Hopefully this episode will raise Autism awareness and increase the sensitivity levels of the general populace when witnessing what some deem as unruly children. Although this episode is about Autism, this also applies to all children with special needs and their caregivers.

Shanté and Chris will amaze you when they help explain Autism from their beautiful son Dylan’s perspective. You will be forever changed.

013 How To Communicate With The Most Difficult People – Part 1

Ep 13-Rick BrinkmanWhy do people act the way they do?  How would you like to improve your relationships with the difficult people in your life?  According to Dr. Rick Brinkman you can improve even the most difficult relationships.  In this episode, he will share strategies on how to effectively deal with the top 13 difficult behaviors that can literally destroy our relationships at home, work, and elsewhere.  Can you identify which behavior best describes you?

1. Know-it-Alls     2. Think-They-Know-It-Alls     3. Whiners     4. Meddlers     5. Martyrs     6. Tank attackers     7. Snipers     8. No people (Negativity)     9. Yes people     10. Maybe people     11. Nothing people     12. Grenade Tantrums     13. Judgers

Dr. Rick Brinkman is the Co-Author of “Dealing with People You Can’t Stand” and “How to Bring Out the Best in People at Their Worst.”  Over 2 million copies sold with translations in 24 languages.

007 Life After The Affair

Dr. Shane Perrault, also known as “Dr. Shane” is a leading Psychologist, Author, Speaker and Founder of the African American Marriage Counseling Organization and is a highly sought after Life Coach and Speaker on issues relating to relationships, marriages and ADHD.

Dr. Shane shares his views about infidelity, what it is, why it occurs, and most importantly what happens after an affair is revealed. He talks about the three stages the hurt partner will experience after an affair is revealed.

1.  Atone – Involves the reactions (emotional, physical, neurological) that will occur after learning about the affair.

2. Atune – The hurt partner reviews his or her options to stay or leave the relationship.

3. Attach – The couple reconnects to start the process of rebuilding their relationship.

Dr. Shane states that the hurt partner is the only one who should make the decision to stay or leave the relationship and the worse thing the unfaithful partner can do is try to rush the decision-making and ask them to “get over it.”

Visit Dr. Shane at http://africanamericanmarriagecounseling.com/